Dating for big handsome black men

However, I've been on a "lifestyle change" for about five years now and recently when I find myself attracted to a guy's personality, then I notice he's fat-in-the-belly, I try to shut the attraction off.

I used to generally be drawn to fat men and prefer to date them because I didn't want to date anyone who was smaller than me or had a much fitter body than me; it was a total attraction killer.

I can't tell you how many times I've said, "Wow, he's cute," to friends and gotten the response, "Yeah, but he has a big nose." What? Something about a big nose always makes me think they have a great personality: funny, strong, full of life. Related: 10 Simple Ways To Use The 'Law Of Attraction' To Find Your Soulmate It's time to forget your silly deal breakers and everything you've heard about Pinocchio.

However, every woman has different likings when it comes to dating a man of her choice.

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There's a pretty popular thread going on about whether men are attracted to fat women. I definitely am attracted to a bigger man - but it has to be a certain kind of fat (and they have to be tall, too). I've come too far to enter in a relationship where the guy obviously is eating too much/drinking too much/ not exercising enough.

I put it to you this way: Are Women Attracted to Fat Men? Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM Only very recently have I started viewing fit & toned men as more attractive than fat men.


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